Sign up for the Incredible Things daily email. Therefore, the most important thing for women to do is accepting themselves for who they are and look like. But when it comes to the things you cannot change, the most important thing you can do is accepting yourself for who you are and move on! Glad you took my Body perfect woman according to men well. I suppose I did come across as grumpy. And despite the media not giving them many props, there will always be a good number of men who will always show their love and appreciation to the big, beautiful woman simply because they are just that, big and beautiful.